I've been brainstorming the ideal way to bring about this whole 'blog dream', to break it down, and make it something realistic, sincere, relatable, inspiring and encouraging. So, let's start this off by utilizing the format of a basic invitation. An invitation from me, to you.
WHO: Who is this for? It's both for me, and for you, yet I understand it might not be for everyone. It's an invitation to women, to mothers, sisters, friends, longing to be their best selves, in a world full of unrealistic expectations, negativity, judgement and uncertainty. For those looking for reassurance, a reference, relatabilty, inspiration and healthy guidance (I certaintly don't have everything in life figured out, though I'm willing to be transparent about things I've experienced). Who am I? I'm a dedicated wife and mother of two young boys. I work my dream job three days a week as an esthetician and spend my days off wife-ing, mothering and trying to keep the house in order. I'm a bit OCD, I love structure and a gameplan, have a vast music library, my wardrobe is black and grey, and thrive on eating organic foods, drinking black coffee and red wine. I love Jesus and my family; I wouldn't be where I am today without Him/them. I'm a second born with five sisters. My parents are a true inspiration and I also couldn't ask for better in-laws. (My boys are so fortunate to have both sets of grandparents nearby)
WHAT: A new personal hobby. The content of this blog will vary. I'd love to cover a variety of topics; from daily life, living cleaner/greener, recipes/nutrition, wellness, wife/mom/work life, relationships, and also discuss deeper topics such as my personal struggles, self worth, communication, divorce (and what it's like to marry again), experiencing miscarriages, finding hope in a dark world. I'm always open to topic suggestions.
WHEN: How often will I post? I'd be lying if I said I'll post daily, however, I do plan to post often.. 1-3 times a week feels doable. I want this blog to remain enjoyable for me, an outlet/journal designed to encourage others, while maintaining a healthy balance within my home and work life. I do not want to rob my family of my time, nor do I want to overexposed them publicly. Fact of the matter is, I've been on the verge of deleting social media altogether, to shield myself and my family of all the negativity and narcissism, but have decided to follow the underlying desire to create a positive force instead.
WHERE: I will strictly keep my blog posts on my website, but will share links on my social media pages. (Feel free to share my posts as well!) If you're anything like me, you'd agree that repeated posts of the same content grows old so quickly.
WHY: This is my favorite part. My intentions for this blog are to level with those who can relate. To be transparent about real life, while staying mindful, sensitive and truthful. It is not a space for bragging or comparison, nor a space for negativity or jealousy. It is never my intention to offend, however I understand the inevitability of that; sometimes the tough words to write/say/read are often so spot on, it can create guilt. That's when opportunities of inspiration and personal growth are created. I desire to stay in-line with my beliefs and choices as a wife and mother, knowing that not all will see eye to eye. After all, the beauty in choice is diversity. I am far from perfect but strive to continue to grow myself, and I pray my realness speaks to somebody.
Join me in finding relatabilty in our commonalities, instead of negativity in our differences.
Join me in being intentional.
Join me in being your best self.
WHO: Who is this for? It's both for me, and for you, yet I understand it might not be for everyone. It's an invitation to women, to mothers, sisters, friends, longing to be their best selves, in a world full of unrealistic expectations, negativity, judgement and uncertainty. For those looking for reassurance, a reference, relatabilty, inspiration and healthy guidance (I certaintly don't have everything in life figured out, though I'm willing to be transparent about things I've experienced). Who am I? I'm a dedicated wife and mother of two young boys. I work my dream job three days a week as an esthetician and spend my days off wife-ing, mothering and trying to keep the house in order. I'm a bit OCD, I love structure and a gameplan, have a vast music library, my wardrobe is black and grey, and thrive on eating organic foods, drinking black coffee and red wine. I love Jesus and my family; I wouldn't be where I am today without Him/them. I'm a second born with five sisters. My parents are a true inspiration and I also couldn't ask for better in-laws. (My boys are so fortunate to have both sets of grandparents nearby)
WHAT: A new personal hobby. The content of this blog will vary. I'd love to cover a variety of topics; from daily life, living cleaner/greener, recipes/nutrition, wellness, wife/mom/work life, relationships, and also discuss deeper topics such as my personal struggles, self worth, communication, divorce (and what it's like to marry again), experiencing miscarriages, finding hope in a dark world. I'm always open to topic suggestions.
WHEN: How often will I post? I'd be lying if I said I'll post daily, however, I do plan to post often.. 1-3 times a week feels doable. I want this blog to remain enjoyable for me, an outlet/journal designed to encourage others, while maintaining a healthy balance within my home and work life. I do not want to rob my family of my time, nor do I want to overexposed them publicly. Fact of the matter is, I've been on the verge of deleting social media altogether, to shield myself and my family of all the negativity and narcissism, but have decided to follow the underlying desire to create a positive force instead.
WHERE: I will strictly keep my blog posts on my website, but will share links on my social media pages. (Feel free to share my posts as well!) If you're anything like me, you'd agree that repeated posts of the same content grows old so quickly.
WHY: This is my favorite part. My intentions for this blog are to level with those who can relate. To be transparent about real life, while staying mindful, sensitive and truthful. It is not a space for bragging or comparison, nor a space for negativity or jealousy. It is never my intention to offend, however I understand the inevitability of that; sometimes the tough words to write/say/read are often so spot on, it can create guilt. That's when opportunities of inspiration and personal growth are created. I desire to stay in-line with my beliefs and choices as a wife and mother, knowing that not all will see eye to eye. After all, the beauty in choice is diversity. I am far from perfect but strive to continue to grow myself, and I pray my realness speaks to somebody.
Join me in finding relatabilty in our commonalities, instead of negativity in our differences.
Join me in being intentional.
Join me in being your best self.
